
Here are seven creative strategies to convert the task of gift-giving into a chance for decluttering and better communication:
- Before Thanksgiving, inform your friends and family that you prefer gifts of experiences or consumables. Likewise, let them know you plan to give similar gifts.
- Also, before Thanksgiving, consider donating any surplus gift-wrapping materials and unused holiday decorations to charities. These can be very useful for those in need or for charity events.
- Get creative with gift wrapping by using materials like unused fabrics—think sheets, pillowcases, tablecloths, or even bandanas. This is an eco-friendly and inventive way to present gifts.
- Look around for items like boxes, baskets, tins, jars, and vases, repurposing them as unique and sustainable containers for gifts, especially for edible treats (like homemade spiced nuts!).
- Take the opportunity to pass down family heirlooms during the holidays, sharing the stories and memories associated with these special items.
- Organize a family scrapbooking session to sort through old photographs. This is a great way to relive memories, share stories, and responsibly dispose of less meaningful photos.
- Create video recordings of family members, young and old, sharing their stories and values. This not only preserves family history but also fosters deeper connections.
Finally, a thoughtful gift idea could be a homemade coupon offering your services as a downsizing assistant. It’s a gift of time and help that many relatives will appreciate amidst the clutter of the holidays.
Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist and The Doyenne of Death®, is an award-winning speaker, author, podcaster, and coordinator of the Before I Die New Mexico Festival (www.BeforeIDieFestivals.com). She is also a Certified Funeral Celebrant. Her four books on planning ahead for end-of-life issues – A Good Goodbye, Kicking the Bucket List, Hail and Farewell, and Before I Die Festival in a Box™ – are available through Amazon and her website, www.AGoodGoodbye.com.
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